Random connections do not happen

They say that when a woman raises the question - change or not - its solution depends on how well its current otnosheshniya with her husband. So that the "random" connections among women does not happen. Let us consider the most traditional "casual connection" in terms of psychological difficulties.

The woman is always looking for confirmation of its beauty and originality. She is - as the air is so important that if she does not receive recognition and a gift from the legal men, the first attempts to reconcile, and then begins to "breathe by stealth", to steal the air, admiration and love on the side. But on what scenario will develop the "search" depends on what kind of psychological problem faced lady.The script first. "Podshofe"
99 percent of cases of bed - a reference to the hop, saying "I did not answer for themselves and do not remember anything." But in truth, the alcohol is no such property - to turn us into a completely different personality type Greenskins Marsianka. But there is a property to rent restrictions and barriers. So if, after three glasses of cognac silent type crackles like a diesel engine, a business woman climbs on the bar, it's likely these opposites were sitting somewhere in the back of their minds.
Diagnosis: video "podshofe" takes our brakes. And if you're so easily with them flocking, then most likely you do to yourself is hiding something. For example, the husband is not as good, or that she had long dreamed about a friend of her husband. In short, the 'I' tipsy - this is also the "I" is real. And "it" this is considered, because "she" says and does what he really wants to "you."Scenario Two. "Holiday Romance"
Time waits for no legitimate only the body but the psyche. You can be tired and from work, and from the spouse. But each of us, even the most faithful, there is a temptation in batches "AIDS" - someone swimming instructor who burning the Turks, who are gentle young man. After all, each one of us (inogda!) want something that way, most of what we do not ... So it is quite an innocent flirtation, which in urban areas only decorates the gray days, there is a serious threat to our chastity.
Special trump resort's novels is that of our overseas escapade really none the wiser.
Diagnosis: usually men from the beginning to set - spent-time-and-ran. But women often idealize passion. Therefore, pre-decide for yourself two very important things. Firstly, what you really want? Simply unwind, to take revenge on her husband, find the love of life, or keep up with friends, which has already resulted in the 4 th? And, secondly, how do you cope with feelings of guilt "her"? (Women are much more likely to suffer from feelings of guilt for adultery than men. This is not a women's solidarity, it's statistics).Scenario Three. "Sex with a stranger"
87 percent of women fantasize about sex with a stranger. But one thing - to dream, and quite another - to take action. Do I have to agree to have sex with someone you never see? From whom do not have to feign an orgasm just to avoid being upset. No need to wonder what words or actions will affect future relations. For many women an opportunity to become the other, then there is another, but such a woman would never allow themselves to be in bed. Depraved, or vice versa - is finally indifferent and do not cheer him screaming like a horse on the racetrack.
Diagnosis: sex with a stranger shows that a woman wants to play a game of chance. Or that she had too much temperament. Or that the door she stumbled upon Brad Pitt, who immediately began to show her that she had not appeared on screens in "Three." But in most cases a woman who consents to sex with a liked man, almost always looking for your great love. But if she finds her at a roadside toilet - one more question. However, in life anything can happen.Scenario Four. "Revenge of the husband"
Treason - so common, that few people avoid this fate. And even if the wife found out, reconciled and forgiven, it is very rare, she manages to get rid of the heavy sediment. Sometimes these wounds - bombs that explode once given a chance to instruct her husband horns. And usually the woman allows himself to go as far as her own husband.
However, from the practice of family psychologists know that as analgin from wounds inflicted by her husband cheating does not help. But this is a very effective way to understand what you really think about your own man. There are many cases when a foreign man clearly demonstrated that her home as her husband does not satisfy, does not understand, are not happy, and even vile uses. But far more often a woman finds out that this type of outsider not hold a candle to her husband.
Diagnosis: Revenge of the husband suggests that you have something to review in his marriage and herself. Women - mysterious creatures, even to themselves. Therefore, the shape variability, we may wish to take revenge on her husband pobolnee not only for treason, but for lack of money, because he does not satisfy, humiliates, his crazy mother, .. in short, for anything. Therefore, if sex with another woman happy only as revenge, then ... Why do you need another man? There are lots of less labor-intensive ways to "get" her husband.Scenario five. One Night with the "former"
The beauty of the landscape in that both can convince yourself that nothing has happened. At one time more, one less - because it does not change anything, right? So this time - just sex, just felt very sad, you just happened to be naked around the corner. And of course, for all this is an innocent excuse - for example, she praised his new bustier ...
Diagnosis: the truth about this "friendly sex" is almost always for one of the partners (and sometimes both) the night after parting means that feelings do not fade away. And if a woman through the years, suddenly feel that those years did not seem to be worth remembering the following statistics: about 70% of couples in a long life together (over 5 years) diverge and re-connect.
But! Before you make plans for a bright tomorrow for the second time - find out about his current girlfriend and plans. Suddenly he is an exception telling the truth and for him it's really just sex?