In the image: who we choose for sex

Remember how in the song: Love does not say everything about it said ... That there is an axiom that we fall in love in just 45 seconds. But scientists with this all-Legend disagree.

 They've gone and solved the mystery of mutual attraction of the sexes. It turns out, the ladies often fall in love with men of similar or fathers, or to ex-partners, either on their own. What is it - stubbornness or abundance of imagination? Neither one nor the other, analysts believe. This is an order of our subconscious. It stuck the images of men who were / are dear to us, and we could not help myself programmed to meet a similar candidates. Interestingly, it does not interfere with sex? Loved like a father Situation
Father of "wandering" in our subconscious mind on all, because her love for him is the strongest. This echoes the very complex, Electra, who as a child a lot of ruffled nerves, you and your mother (according to legend, Mycenaean princess Electra killed her mother because she sent her husband into another world). You probably do not remember as a kid walking the pope tail, climbed to the parent as a bed and a loud voice (or eye) reported that marry just for the pope. But even if you do not slighted mother and quietly shed tears in the nursery, the essence remains the same. Anyway, you had - and this is normal! - Phase in love with her father. Then the "feelings subsided, there was only a subsidiary of love, gratitude, and you are not trying to take the place of the mother. But find a man like his father, sought. True, it usually only works in that situation, if my daughter had a good relationship with his father. Otherwise, it will search for "anyone", not the parent. Sex prediction

    * Your chosen one may not like the imposed role. But even if the partner has no objection to the mission you assigned to it, do not overdo it "paternal love": do not weep in the vest, do not tell about ex-lovers.
    * Strong resemblance partner with your dad is fraught with problems in the bedroom. Namely - decreased libido (yours, of course!). And although the head you'll realize that the threat of incest imaginary - sex drive may fail. Try doing "it" in the dark or with eyes closed. Perhaps it is easier to overcome the psychological barrier.
    * Partner reminds you of a father, but you can not understand what exactly? Most likely, it ... in odor. British sexologists viyasnili that the most exciting flavor thinks the weaker sex parent body odor. This ensures that the offspring will be robust, proven system of immunity. But even if the children you are not thinking, it is still often smell the favorite - it ... stimulates sexual desire. 

First love, and not only Situation
Ex-partners may long haunt our thoughts. Even if a hundred years ago have left. Usually this happens when the gestalt is not yet closed. Simply put, when you are not torn between the emotional connection. By the way, not everyone knows that negative feelings (hatred, anger, irritation) in relation to the former - an indication that feeling is still warm. And until they have cooled, do not be surprised if your present elected representatives - the clones ex-lover. Sexologists know a lot of funny when a man carried away in his youth pornography, sink down to a particular type of movie stars, for example, brunettes with scarlet fingernails. Growing up, he completely forgot that he has formed his taste in women, but from the red nails still falls into ecstasy. Sex prediction

    * Do not compare sexual performance of ex-partner and someone who is near you now. Yes, the current lover can in some way to yield the above, but in something he and his superior.
    * Do not attempt to reproduce the scene which the plant you with another man - the result may be disappointing. For certain this chosen have their own sexual know-how.
    * Most of the yearning for a former partner lies not love or passion, but a banal dissatisfaction with current relationships. If you're tired of rudeness or neglect her husband in the head no-no and even pops up a former lover. But believing in the myth was created, you can destroy the established relationship.
I look at you like a mirror
There is another psychological secret: we like people who look like us. Externally or internally - it does not matter. This is also antics of our subconscious: it feels confidence only to something familiar. Researchers have proved: even if you just accept the same pose as his guest, he could not help feel sympathy for you. Sex prediction

    * Relationship with shower and interests - a nice thing. However, there is a risk that you will play as a hobby in common, that ... forget about the intima. Sublimation still has not been canceled. Therefore, at least during the cool down of your life, inventing a pair of sexy games. After all, the creative energy you do not take!
    * Both of you are friendly, sympathetic, does not allow conflicts to flare up? All this is fine, but flat camaraderie takes passion, and, consequently, the sex. Therefore, periodically throw a jolt to his feelings. By the way, sex after an argument (unless they become permanent) is simply magical!
    * Sometimes a person looks is not just a partner, friend, and almost one hundred percent up as the character and appearance. Thirst for "doubling", as psychologists claim, lies the need for universal admiration. If your partner the same goals, the rivalry between you is inevitable. And in the bedroom, too: for every one of you convinced that he - the chief, and second it must be pleasing in every way.