How to love in-law?

Conflicts between mother-in-law and can harm even the most happy marriage. In-law always treats his daughter as a rival, which selects its favorite son.

Meanwhile, relations with the husband's mother are not necessarily bad. Just stands to eliminate the possibility of any potential conflicts before they occur.
On good terms with the future in-law should take care before the wedding. Remember that first impressions are very important. Try to make it. Praise her flowers on the windowsill, tell her that her new outfit - adorable, ask salad recipe with sunflower chips, which she has treated you. In her future husband to find out what she asked that she loves. Remember, in-law - also a woman. Ask her some advice, ask for help in some woman's case, ask what she thinks about your new dress. Then not only she loves you and will trust you, but you'll see it in a different light.Healthy Distance
Do not say, however, mother-in-all your problems, do not overdo it with confidence. Do not enter it in the course of family problems. If you know that she loves you, and you can trust her, and sometimes may be slightly complain about her husband. But it is better not to do so, and certainly should not constantly criticize her son. No mother likes it. Also, remember that the struggle for a sense of her son's pointless, because his mother loves him differently. Do not compete with it in daily issues - such as cooking, especially if she considers herself a good housewife.Beware of jealousy
Keep your distance from the in-law, even if you have it great. Do not get too much talk with him.
Never forget important for the mother-in dates - birthdays, wedding date husband's parents. Remind your husband that he would at least call his mother. Men often forget about it - and mother-in-guessed someone must care of her son.
Invite your mother in law to an important event for you, select a time for a walk or going to the movies, invite her to dinner. But do not overdo it. Do not let that be a joint "Sunday dinner" became mandatory.
However, never forget that you and your husband - adult, and you make decisions in their lives. Do not let your mother in law to treat you like children who need help. It is likely you need to care for their parents. Do not give her too much as to interfere in the upbringing of their children, but let it be a good grandmother. You can trust her on this issue - remember, she has more experience than you, she brought up your husband, and I think I did it well, since you chose him.