The role of father in child

How do men appear paternal instinct? Sure, not just at a slower rate than in women - the mother. Fathers behave towards infants in very different ways, their behavior changes, but my father do not interfere with the child, which too often provide only available to women: mothers and grandmothers.

Many men, feeling touched fragility and weakness of this new substance, but difficult to adapt to some things. To the fact that this kid is completely seizes his wife, demanding all her attention and concern. In addition, she sometimes gets tired so much that it changes the character (it is normal that her mother worried, concerned and even a little depressed in the first weeks after birth, and therefore becomes impatient and irritable at times).
And then it happens that a child seems to them dirty, and some men, feeling something like aversion to hygiene procedures required for child care, always providing such care of the mother. The nicest, most attentive father who takes the child in his arms, once or twice a day, feeding it from a bottle, night stands, if a child cries to his wife less tired, frightened and runs away when the child defecate, and often hesitate to wash the baby before how to change clothes.
So it turns out, and I happened to notice something like this dozens of times. How seldom happens that my father came with his mother when she brings very little or causes little grown-up children for a visit! Sometimes he brings her to the car, but does not consider himself fit with it enter the doctor's office and uses the time to read the newspaper, and I think that in this case we are dealing with a manifestation of inattention, or at least , a father thinks that interest in the problems of caring for a baby unworthy of man.
So fathers, we should say that they are committing a grave error; child's capabilities should bring together, as two of his doing, and talk with your pediatrician about the child is not about trifles, which the father and can be neglected.
But most importantly, what can the Pope during these early months, it's not overlook the fact that he wanted the birth of this child, even more tenderly treated his wife in her new role, even more to love her for that wonderful gift that she he did, and help her, than you can.
However, in the past few years, the situation began to change. Young fathers were much more interested in their kids. They share with their mothers care for the care of children who are not too lazy to come with them to consult a pediatrician, in a word, much more look after their children and become more involved in their upbringing. These changes occurred under the influence of many social phenomena: that the mother began working, the traditional family split up, young couples are living separately. Undoubtedly, the case also in the fact that young parents began to realize how fascinating to monitor early child development and how important these early years are in the development of future identity.
It is not marriage is the most important stage in the life of a young man, and the birth of their first child, because that event changes the whole life, new responsibilities, new restrictions associated with the child. And he soon realizes what place he occupies in life baby. With many popes it could happen, when their baby turns 7-8 months, and he will be happy to meet his father in the evenings, waiting for his return and will certainly want to sit on his lap and play a little with him before dinner.
Yes, new fathers actually appeared, and it is very good because the most beautiful of the goals set for themselves husbands and wives - is to have children, engage them, to really bring them together. And, whether we like it or not, the family in many circumstances of life will remain the most reliable support for men and for women, because in today's families they are drawn to kinship.