The secrets of female friendship

On the women's friendship is legendary. Some believe that it does not exist in principle, while others can not imagine life without her friends, and others do not share the friendships into male and female.

Do not delve into the differences
Regardless of this, we have a need to communicate with someone you can trust your secret feelings or share the joy. Of course, it could be a beloved man, and mother, and even in-law, but as a rule, a woman more comfortable to shop, discuss movies, sit in a cafe and talk heart to heart with my friend about my age who share similar interests and, interestingly , a similar abundance. Not for nothing that the American writer L. Colvin said: "Friendship is not possible between two women, one of whom wears very well." However, unless you're from complexes due to the fact that the girlfriend earns a lot more of you, friendship is possible in this case. Look for what unites you, and not delve into the differences.Do not look for a friend enemy
Build friendships, as well as family, can be difficult. Especially you, for example, married, girlfriend - do not. However, looking at the situation positively - you came to visit her, a little break from family life by arranging a chat with women's talk. And she, tired of seclusion will be happy to visit your noisy house. The hardest thing for a woman who keeps and protects his family well-being - it does not look to free a woman as an enemy that can destroy it. Therefore, you should be sure his girlfriend. And often it turns out that husbands do not make friends of their wives. Especially unmarried, believing that their frivolous behavior bad influence on her husband. But do not indulge your possessiveness half. You have the right friends, as well as he - to friends.Do not abuse the friendship
Go to the secrets of this female friendship openness and sincerity, mutual understanding, similarity of views on life and the very desire to be friends. Must also learn to be tactful and keep secret girlfriend. To select the correct object for the friendship, we must listen to their inner feelings of the person. If you with it comfortably, safely, if it is used not only to take, but also to give something in return if he is able to give you the time - most likely kind of friendship will be long. But you have to have all these qualities. If you are friends with my friend from school, do not let the whirlwind of everyday affairs grab you, make you forget about it. It is important to put something in that relationship, and not just go with the flow. Maybe you do, and it changed a lot, but still need each other. But abuse friendship is not worth. She may have their own business, when you call to arrange a meeting. Of course, quite another if she ignores you constantly, and agrees to meet only when she herself needs help.
Still, their friendship exists. It's just as versatile as the woman herself and her psychology.