
Man and woman do not notice that spend less and less time together, growing apart, looking for attention and understanding on the side. As a result, their life is like a dormant volcano, which can explode at any moment.
To preserve the bonds of love during pregnancy and after childbirth, psychologists advise:
First, you need to keep your love life.
During pregnancy, many people think that sex and the expectation of a child - two incompatible things, but this is incorrect. If your child is developing normally, and you feel good - contraindications to intimate relations should not be. But if you have concerns, ask for advice from your gynecologist.
After childbirth, women push their loved ones, referring to the tiredness, the lack of sleep and the burden of household chores. In addition, women felt that their physical changes contribute to decline in sexual activity together. They were also confused by the presence of the baby in the apartment. A man complains that the baby took all the space in the heart of his beloved, or wait patiently until the child a little older.
But the older the child, the more trouble. Therefore it is necessary (unless, of course, you have that option) at an early age to accustom the baby to his own room. Later, when he learns to walk, explain to your child that he should not interrupt the conversation of adults, burst into the room without knocking and throw the parents in her toys. Over time he learns to respect the rules set by you, to respect the territory of the adults and your personal life.
Children need affection, care and joy, but not worth sacrificing your love life for him.
Second, contact with other adults can benefit your child.
Learn to trust your baby to your parents, sisters, and finally nyanyam. This will allow you to leave it for a while and go to a restaurant, a movie or to friends - enjoy a brief time spent together, as in olden times.
Love between the parents - is the most precious gift that can get a child and garmoniya between partners is the foundation of proper vospitaniya baby.
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