How do you know a child through his dreams

Yes, everything in the world: the magicians, the new commercials, a new dress, about toys, and about the world around the world. Children's dreams can tell a lot about the state of mind of the child, his fear, uncertainty, etc.

Educator and psychologist Eda LeShan (Eda LeShan) believes that up to 7-8 years, children generally can not draw the line between fantasy and reality. Fantasy too different from the dream: something magical and fantastic is likely to fantasies, but to become a painter or a pilot is quite sbytochnaya dream, which encourages children to action: they paint and master toy airplanes.
But after 7 or 8 years of age, children learn to live in the real world, begin to differentiate, where fantasy and reality where. Before that age the dreams of children are based on fairy tales or cartoons that they watch. Their dream is to fly like the fairies, to become a wizard or a princess. But it also happens that the children at an early age want something more realistic: for example, to obtain a set of dolls or toy plane, bike or roller. These children are usually poorly developed imagination, they rely more on logic, but maybe they just fantasy in books and cartoons.
Children often "mundane" dreams can tell a state of mind of the child: if the kid wants to have many friends, so it alone, and you need to pay attention to the fact that it impedes him to make friends with peers. If a child dreams of becoming someone from a fairy tale, who is stronger than all, such as giant or Superman, maybe he feels a sense of insecurity.
Parents can help your child: you can play with him in a game where there are wizards, giants, or other "strongmen" - then the child, meet the characters in the game feel more confident and understands that in life you can change a lot - we just want it. Maybe we can teach our children to understand the language of animals, or fly like a fairy, but we are fully able to go with them, "a visit" to the fairy, or buy him a toy airplane or roller.
But dreams, as the children grow up, evolve over time. Thus, if the little girl dreams of becoming a dancer, not necessarily her she will become. But dreams are necessary for the development of children - they learn to understand where the real dream, "sbytochnye, and where it is simply fantasy. In addition, develop the imagination dreams. Thanks to children's dreams, we adults can better understand their child and even if their dreams are unrealistic or do not coincide with ours - is the way to mutual understanding between us and the kids.