Whether you like to learn? Ask this question to any child, and provided that you meet honest, nine out of ten children will react in response to more or less negative.As you know, kids love to go to school ... and from school ... Here only those hours between walking, they are often the most tedious and unpleasant. So whether it is possible in principle to interest the child studies, and that this be done?
First of all, as noted by psychologists, is what do not need to:
* You do not need to intimidate and punish those you plant your child is not love of learning, and an aversion to it and fear you.
* No need to "pay" for a good school - that you will develop a child's consumer attitude towards life in general, and to you in particular.
* No need to impose conditions and limitations in categorical terms - nothing but the negative emotions the child is not a cause.
On the other hand, it is necessary and even necessary:
* Since childhood instill an appreciation for the child to keep acquiring new skills.
* Encourage him in the learning process, but do nothing for the child, and not try to save him from the loads at all.
* If there are problems with teachers, to settle them diplomatically as possible, not giving the teachers about the "break" on the child.
* In case of problems with peers at school, try to solve them together with the child, with minimal losses for the latter, lest he hate school already behind its existence.
* Spell out your child how important the result of learning from a social point of view.
* Try to comprehensively develop the child so that he could make up for yourself what did not get in school.
* Do not turn the learning process in the battle for the excellent evaluation. "
* Try to understand the child - education is important - for whatever reasons - first and foremost for him, and then - for his parents.
And finally, parents must remember that human life can not consist only of work and school, even if this person just seven, twelve or fifteen years.
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