Neither myself nor the peoplely lead greed.

In the most disgusting qualities of men undoubtedly lead greed. In this convergent views of the majority of women. Probably, it laid the evolution: if a woman is not sure that the man pay for it in the cafe - then not be able to feed their families.

And if you have not bought a mink coat - hence, does not care about her health. Live with this rather difficult in general. Where does man's greed, what Cormorant occur more frequently than others and how they get along? 
Greed is no vice
Greed - the notion of a double. It brings together two seemingly not associated with one another quality: it is greed and avarice. Greedy person wants to get everything and more, mean - tends to spend less. Greedy - is someone who wants more time to have the lowest cost.
Factors that lead to greed, transferred psychologist and family counselor center "Verona" Elena Melnikova. It is believed that genetics are involved. Researchers found that areas of the brain responsible for avarice, are located near the zone of conscience and responsibility. This means that the responsible skromnyaga likely raskidyvatsya money will not be. The psychological reason is that the accumulation or unwillingness to give - it's a way to reduce overall anxiety. For such people, control of finances - it is a way to feel safe. In addition, the Cormorant is often out of the tight-fisted families, where it was decided to save. 
I'll take you any
"Many women represent close to him a generous man who recklessly spent on them, and sponsors every whim. This representation we owe a number of films, fairy tales like "Beauty," "Cinderella" in all its variations. Many fairy tales form just such a stereotype of male behavior expected ", - says Elena Melnikova.
She recalled that the generosity that really want to watch with his men, in fact often closely associated with obsessive passionate love (a very painful feeling), and beside her are such "joy", as jealousy and the desire to control.
That women are usually some reason do not want. But with hog hard. How can that be? As explained by a psychologist, greed and the desire to have more wealth is very firmly embedded in the value system of the individual. And so the answer is logical consequence of itself - if a woman has the same value system as that of men, it will not stretch it. First they "pobodayutsya" for the control of, and then will save, collect and be greedy together.
However, the meanie meanie strife, consider the more basic types of avaricious men, and how to interact with them. 
Egoist: all for yourself

 
Distinguishing features: He loves himself and loves to save - only for others, not themselves. This type likes to eat caviar with a spoon, but the foresight to hide it, if a sudden knock on the door.
How to get along: Distinguish between selfishness and self-centeredness. "Egoist understands the interests of others, but prefer their own self-centeredness of the child follows the principle of pursuit of pleasure" - reminds Igor Lyah, the therapist clinic "Insight". Two selfish can agree on the division of spheres of influence, and it will hold. When the man put you into their own attention and assigns itself - it starts to spend money on you because he can not be ugly and badly dressed woman, rightly emphasizes Elena Melnikova. 
Miser: neither myself nor the people
Special features: miser - a colloquial name of a miser. Miser does not save, it just does not spend. Therefore, to meet you outside in the park, give it to you to be wild flowers and gifts made by hand.
How to get along: "Build a relationship with him is possible, if you do not depend on him financially. But criticism of misspend you will hear constantly "- warns Elena Melnikova.
Igor Lyakh advised to wait: the good miser get a nice mota (this is when a person finally gets the confidence, and before it reaches that with money you can buy some fun). 
The poor man: an empty pocket is no pressure
Special features: The man who believes that money - not important, and it actively promotes. At the same time he walks in the stretched sweater and himself describes as "poor but honest." The woman also wants to see a number of poor and honest, preferably in a dress sewn with their hands (which is cheaper).
How to get along: If you have aspirations of the soul expressed stronger aspirations purse - you will find a common language excellent uzhivetes. Others with a poor knight will be hard (exception - young and couples who jointly earn a roof over your head). 
Plyushkin: save to live
Distinguishing features: This is always something to hoard. And when you have a car, will save more on anything. Cormorant subspecies of the ordinary with a mania for collecting in the appendage.
How to get along: patience and humility. His life is subject to one big idea. Prior to its implementation, all joys are laid. Including your joint happiness. The most dangerous type - the one who wanted to accumulate on the moon. His will go on this whole life. 
Streamlining: a man-Sale
Special features: Do not stiff - just can count. Knows how to save money on technology, aware of all sales. Perfect example - the prudent and practical German.
How to get along: imagine that the search for a convenient and inexpensive sofas can also inspire, as the hunt for rasprodazhnymi dresses. If you get - no problems in the relationship will not. Practical wives of husbands in the soul is not chayut and live by the principle "everything in the house." But spender should think ahead: a practical nature - it's for life. If you do not even have its beginnings, will be extremely difficult. 
Guest: disposable connection



Distinguishing features: A man does not want to spend money on you just because you are not interested in him.
"If a man has not made a decision about your relationship, then you're home he'll always feel just guests, but most likely it will be for you to come and visit will not be calling.
He will not share with you not only money but also discussing plans for a weekend vacation "- sums up Elena Melnikova. From this need to run only if you, of course, looking for serious relationship.
Psychologists have recognized: the largest number of "scoundrels and cormorants" comes across to those who deceive themselves, and wants only gifts, not of love and warm feelings for each other.