Flirting at work: the pros and cons

From Monday to Friday we are working, talking, something to produce and sell. We - the Present and the future of their companies in our country. And yet, we - just men and women who want to enjoy each other. Poflirtuem!? Is it worth it to work somehow?

People are so different. For a compliment - it is already flirting, for another hug with kisses - so, anything else does not mean you will think that there is such? Some openly say: "Yes, I love to flirt. And flirting with everyone. And how! People love compliments, attention, jokes. " Although in reality people do not flirt, he feels that way. It may well be harmless kiss on the cheek, ordinary human courtesy and friendly sympathy. A man calls it a flirt, not knowing that flirt - is something else, with certain aspirations ...
What is flirting?
If you look in dictionaries can learn that flirting - a special way of behaving, which manifests itself in various forms of attracting attention, courting, flirting. When two people, usually of the opposite sex sharing signs of attention, which have an erotic subtext. How do I know what you flirt?
Maybe this is it goes if you are smiling enigmatically, with a long and tender look in his eyes. Try, as if by chance to touch you, but not a friendly pat on the shoulder, and pat on the arm to fix her hair, etc.
Speak to you soft velvety voice, trying to come closer to you, sit down. In general, you feel that something is wrong here ... After all, as in the song: "Do not matter what you say because no matter what, and how! "
Of course, such attentions are always pleasant, especially if a man flirting with you, you cute too. But all this is happening at work. How to be: to support the game or stop?
For the working flirt
Maybe it's someone may seem strange, but psychologists say that flirtation at work is very useful even for people flirting and workflow. Surprisingly, this manner of conduct to protect us from stress, gives us confidence in our abilities, open our creative potential.
The work of amateurs do not come to flirt, do not come and fly on its own wings. Their projects are brilliant, the negotiations are successful, but the aura of light lucky draws in the company of good money. In general, influenced by the arrows of Cupid the averages employees and employee turn into supper heroes. And that - not a fairy tale, and profit!

    * Flirt launches in the body hormones of happiness
    * Flirting keeps a person in a tone
    * Flirt enhances self-esteem and Immunity
And it would be great would be living large corporations and small companies for a long time, happily, richly, if not for Flirt! Rather, its average shape, smoothly flow in the form of heavy. Against the working of flirting
Yes, yes, but Baba Yaga - against. And rightly! Unfortunately, professional light flirting among the workers a little bit. All the other over time begin to suffer from his love. Especially because they are her (love) have allowed themselves to show. Wink, pat, prigolubili object of his secret, almost unconscious erotic desires. And the suffering of those still tepericha and workflow bottlenecks. Because!

    * Desired employee can not reciprocate (and in America for flirtation and even a court can get)
    * Jealousy and rivalry is born in the heart of an employee if he sees the object of his unconscious desires flirting with another employee. What work in such a condition could be it!?
    * If you flirt in its path has not met such obstacles as jealousy, it could turn into a business affair. Well, if the novel ends marriage, and if not? There is something to think about, right?
    * Even at work you can find artful flirtomanov. Their goal - to win the victim closer to fish in her important information. Or, using the winged victims to pass on to her shoulders, part of their work. Yeah, so just by looking in your eyes and enigmatic smile, they are veiled your desktop tasks that have to do it, not you. Trickery such office loving instances there is no limit. Be careful!
A friendship has won!
That's how things stand with flirting in the workplace. Someone he can give the happy and successful working weekdays, and someone from him some problems and sheer frustration. In general, we can say that working flirt - a risk. You can either get it all: your favorite job and lover, with whom will live happily ever after one soul, and lose it all - too real.
Of course, nothing ventured, and he does not drink champagne. But who is there to lose, much safer not to be at work its eroticism, but just to be friends with your colleagues. You know, the friendship, too, can give you creative inspiration and happiness hormones. In this friendship does not awaken you to jealousy, without ruining your nerves, and reputation. So are friends, ladies and gentlemen, and sleep soundly.