To live with unloved husband

Can you live with the unloved husband? Of course. And there is no sacrifice on the part of women while there. Here are Japanese women, for example, going to women's circles, where each of its abuse how much in vain (and for good reason), and then quietly go home - to live my normal life, where the man - the owner and master.

This is because in a divorce where a woman just released to the world. That is, in the literal sense. Any rights or property, it is not getting. Here's a Japanese wife and dreams of freedom, not wanting to have it in pure form. Practical French look upon marriage as a bargain. For them to get married is like a job. Settled, of course, try as best as possible.
But what about children? Once in the store saw a picture of English: A young mother, absorbed in the selection and fitting T-shirts, skirts, and did not pay any attention to her child, screaming in the pram. It is true that occasionally she turned to him and gently said: "Shut up." Saleswoman, as did the rest of women customers, sympathized with her desire to be attractive and reproachful glances at the baby. In general, there is an approach to the problem is this: if a child is not a potential successor of the case or kind, it is viewed as an unavoidable burden, which must be reconciled, but to pander to the whims of which is not necessary.
This is in Russia and the marriage itself, and all of them strongly associated poeticize. "They loved each other all their lives and died in one day." However, in cases when a woman gets married "in French," ie, settles, it usually tries not to create situations of conflict, since it is very clear about is that it is in this case loses. And only in a hopeless position is for a divorce. In most cases - the main thing that was a good man. " And then the script - a paradise in a tent and a stork on the roof.
Then the young mothers, tormented thoughts about life and untimely death of his still blossoming youth, there is an idea that could be different. The husband at this time trying to get away from excessive for his young age (typically, between 19 and 23) problems. There are competing claims, and the husband becomes the unloved. The wife appeared phrases like: "I live with it just for the sake of the child." And she herself is a sacred trust. But in vain! Children are innocent.
First of all, it is guided by the eternal feminine fear of insecurity. Although now divorced young women with children, good traded at the fair bride, the preference is still given to "childless options.
Children are innocent. My friend, for example, need to sit a week or two with your child begins to count the days to parole from family duties. A few days after the start of unrestrained fun - visit nightclubs, restaurants and just a birthday friends. By educating a child in these cases involved nurses, grandmothers and childless families.
Children do not stop us from shopping. Not children, we are guided by buying food for breakfast, although corrects for children's assortment. Children also rarely interfere, and sometimes just go the last argument in a divorce: "I do not want my child to have seen it (heard, so he lived)." Prevent the same woman may divorce fear: Will the two get along quite alien in spirit and blood people (if a woman remarries) - her new husband and mother to child. Will show whether they are a lot of patience for each other? Would it not be worth their intolerance more women of moral (and sometimes physical) cost than what it is now? And it is not the case in children and in ourselves. And the children - just flawless cover for any woman in any situation.