The kid is able to communicate with his parents before his birth. The first reaction to the baby father's hand, put on my mother's belly, is cautious on the new signal: a child dies. Some fathers and mothers mistakenly believe that the baby calms down.
However, in future, if the Pope every day, at the same time touches the mother's abdomen, then between him and the child shall be a special language, the baby gets used to communicate with my father and meets him with his hand tremors. To establish such a relationship for quite a few weeks of communication. From the sixth month of fetal development the baby is listening. And a man's voice he heard before the female, since the low frequencies penetrate better through the mother's abdomen. Father, often talking with the crumbs is rewarded later. A child learns his voice still in rodbloke. After birth, the baby will settle down to the sound of my father's voice, because they are perceived by their families in a strange new world. To enhance the sound, dad can whisper in her mother's ear, or turn directly to the mother's abdomen. What usually tell dad? About how they wait for their baby, some talk about how they met up with her mother, the story of his family. A child comes to communication, if it becomes regular. But what Mom? There are moms, dads are encouraged to communicate, but there are also those who are jealous of dads, and they think that the pope not only interested in their condition as a baby, which they cherish. And some moms and did not pay attention to perturbations of the child.
New features in the family
After giving birth to the father's shoulders lie not only the basic responsibilities for the family center and the organization of everyday life, but also caring for her mother, her support. Particularly needed assistance in daddy's the first time when my mother to establish lactation and contact with the child. Will be good if you are able to take a vacation and help her mother, at least the first month. Help his father prove useful in the following important matters:
* To help mom relax. It is important not only to provide adequate nutrition and sleep, but to replace her mother at least once a week after four months to get her some free time, she was able to devote himself exclusively. These watches will save his mother from exhaustion. Then its interaction with the baby, and you will become more valuable and emotionally intense.
* After four to six months, locate the person (grandmother, grandfather, sister, etc.) for which you can leave the child to devote time to each other and go to a cafe, bowling, a walk, a movie, concert, etc . n. Such moments can help you again to pay attention to each other outside of parenting. Remember: your relationships are valuable in themselves and they need to be supported and cared. Having a baby (especially the first one) is the crisis period in the development of family relationships.
* The sensitivity and attention to the needs of his wife. Young mothers often do not ask for help, afraid to look bad mothers and wives. Remember that on the emotional state dependent mother and child's emotional state, so your support is very important. Maybe you need to think about who will be able to clean house or cook, at least for the first time.
* Protect home from pesky visitors. Of course, should not become a recluse, but to communicate better when you want it. Fencing wife of "unsolicited advice". As it is now very sensitive to harsh words, it should be an advocate of action spouses and suppress unwanted advice, even if they come from grandparents.
* If you have older children, most take care of them. With the advent of a family the youngest child, for the older sets stressful period. Need to constantly tell him that he is loved no less than before. You will have to spend more time with an older child: go for walks, read books, to explain the importance of maintaining order in the house, explaining that his mother is now very important and necessary. If a child will manifest aggression in the new situation, help him throw it in the active games.
* Of course, the fathers of babies will not be easy. You will come from work tired, but the kid can scream that often happens before bedtime. A kid can get sick, and you'll be nervous and worried for him. Stop yourself if you want to throw reproach to his wife. All the mothers learn from their mistakes. And kids need is not in perfect moms and their own. Inspires his wife in her faith possible, thanks to pay compliments.
* Share with her mother caring for the child. Use every opportunity to establish their own relationship with the infants, for example, often take him in my arms.
How to establish contact with the infant
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A wonderful way to learn to understand a child - is to perform daily duties to care for them (feed, change clothes, put down, etc.). If Dad will be helping his wife whenever he had the opportunity arises, the relationship between him and the child becomes stronger, and they know each other better. 2. To Dad and baby are closer to each other, needs constant communication between them. The kid should hear my father's voice, breathing the smell, remain with him as much as possible. Dad can take it with you on trips, carry a "kangaroo" or "sling". When a baby suffers from colic, it becomes easier when her father presses him to a big, warm chest. To communicate with your baby pick up the comfortable to wear poses.
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Lie down with your child on the bed, taking off his shirt and putting the baby on the breast (naked or in clothes). So pipsqueak could hear the beating of your heart. In this position, it is convenient to both relax. ·
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Moving around the room with the baby, whom you kiss belly to his chest, you can help him cope with colic. · Take the child so that his head is under your chin (before that make sure that the chin clean-shaven). In this position, you can wiggle from side to side, to talk with the crumbs or sing to him.
*
Lie down on the side and put the child on flank face him. Pull it up to you as close as possible so that he could feel on my face, your breath. Talk with your baby, sing to him and stroking him. · Place your baby belly on the arm so that the legs hanging down on both sides of the hands and face were in your palm. In this case, you can carefully walk or sit while talking to the kid.
The sooner you contact with your child, the thinner will feel it. Each parent contributes to the upbringing and development of the crumbs. In order to understand it later, learn to enjoy communion with him now.
However, in future, if the Pope every day, at the same time touches the mother's abdomen, then between him and the child shall be a special language, the baby gets used to communicate with my father and meets him with his hand tremors. To establish such a relationship for quite a few weeks of communication. From the sixth month of fetal development the baby is listening. And a man's voice he heard before the female, since the low frequencies penetrate better through the mother's abdomen. Father, often talking with the crumbs is rewarded later. A child learns his voice still in rodbloke. After birth, the baby will settle down to the sound of my father's voice, because they are perceived by their families in a strange new world. To enhance the sound, dad can whisper in her mother's ear, or turn directly to the mother's abdomen. What usually tell dad? About how they wait for their baby, some talk about how they met up with her mother, the story of his family. A child comes to communication, if it becomes regular. But what Mom? There are moms, dads are encouraged to communicate, but there are also those who are jealous of dads, and they think that the pope not only interested in their condition as a baby, which they cherish. And some moms and did not pay attention to perturbations of the child.
New features in the family
After giving birth to the father's shoulders lie not only the basic responsibilities for the family center and the organization of everyday life, but also caring for her mother, her support. Particularly needed assistance in daddy's the first time when my mother to establish lactation and contact with the child. Will be good if you are able to take a vacation and help her mother, at least the first month. Help his father prove useful in the following important matters:
* To help mom relax. It is important not only to provide adequate nutrition and sleep, but to replace her mother at least once a week after four months to get her some free time, she was able to devote himself exclusively. These watches will save his mother from exhaustion. Then its interaction with the baby, and you will become more valuable and emotionally intense.
* After four to six months, locate the person (grandmother, grandfather, sister, etc.) for which you can leave the child to devote time to each other and go to a cafe, bowling, a walk, a movie, concert, etc . n. Such moments can help you again to pay attention to each other outside of parenting. Remember: your relationships are valuable in themselves and they need to be supported and cared. Having a baby (especially the first one) is the crisis period in the development of family relationships.
* The sensitivity and attention to the needs of his wife. Young mothers often do not ask for help, afraid to look bad mothers and wives. Remember that on the emotional state dependent mother and child's emotional state, so your support is very important. Maybe you need to think about who will be able to clean house or cook, at least for the first time.
* Protect home from pesky visitors. Of course, should not become a recluse, but to communicate better when you want it. Fencing wife of "unsolicited advice". As it is now very sensitive to harsh words, it should be an advocate of action spouses and suppress unwanted advice, even if they come from grandparents.
* If you have older children, most take care of them. With the advent of a family the youngest child, for the older sets stressful period. Need to constantly tell him that he is loved no less than before. You will have to spend more time with an older child: go for walks, read books, to explain the importance of maintaining order in the house, explaining that his mother is now very important and necessary. If a child will manifest aggression in the new situation, help him throw it in the active games.
* Of course, the fathers of babies will not be easy. You will come from work tired, but the kid can scream that often happens before bedtime. A kid can get sick, and you'll be nervous and worried for him. Stop yourself if you want to throw reproach to his wife. All the mothers learn from their mistakes. And kids need is not in perfect moms and their own. Inspires his wife in her faith possible, thanks to pay compliments.
* Share with her mother caring for the child. Use every opportunity to establish their own relationship with the infants, for example, often take him in my arms.
How to establish contact with the infant
*
A wonderful way to learn to understand a child - is to perform daily duties to care for them (feed, change clothes, put down, etc.). If Dad will be helping his wife whenever he had the opportunity arises, the relationship between him and the child becomes stronger, and they know each other better. 2. To Dad and baby are closer to each other, needs constant communication between them. The kid should hear my father's voice, breathing the smell, remain with him as much as possible. Dad can take it with you on trips, carry a "kangaroo" or "sling". When a baby suffers from colic, it becomes easier when her father presses him to a big, warm chest. To communicate with your baby pick up the comfortable to wear poses.
*
Lie down with your child on the bed, taking off his shirt and putting the baby on the breast (naked or in clothes). So pipsqueak could hear the beating of your heart. In this position, it is convenient to both relax. ·
*
Moving around the room with the baby, whom you kiss belly to his chest, you can help him cope with colic. · Take the child so that his head is under your chin (before that make sure that the chin clean-shaven). In this position, you can wiggle from side to side, to talk with the crumbs or sing to him.
*
Lie down on the side and put the child on flank face him. Pull it up to you as close as possible so that he could feel on my face, your breath. Talk with your baby, sing to him and stroking him. · Place your baby belly on the arm so that the legs hanging down on both sides of the hands and face were in your palm. In this case, you can carefully walk or sit while talking to the kid.
The sooner you contact with your child, the thinner will feel it. Each parent contributes to the upbringing and development of the crumbs. In order to understand it later, learn to enjoy communion with him now.
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