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Sunday, June 17, 2012

Talking about sex

If you have sex is always held, and sepulchral silence, a sudden transition from the silent scenes of a talk show would look unnatural and shocking. We must start slowly.

 The method of "compliments and praises"
To overcome the first shyness, learn to speak simple throwing an stuff. It is hard to mess up the case in recognition of the fact that you like the girl herself as a whole and its individual parts and movements in particular. We all love to hear about a good compliment to praise and cheer up your girlfriend and her inspiring enthusiasm for the charge. But do not be too eloquent. Check in the spirit of "your lips - a heady source of delight" may cause involuntary muscle contractions girls jaw. Keep it simple: "You have such soft lips."The method of "statement of facts"
The principle of "what I see, then I sing" - another easy way to talk. If a girl, for example, sat watching football with you, you're going to explain to her what was happening on the field. Similarly, you can comment on what is happening during sex: tell her what she looks like she is doing and how you feel. To hear about it, doing this - a great incentive. To start choose a neutral expression - with herbs is better to wait until the second time.The method of "debriefing"
Rest after the fight - another good time to practice the vocabulary of love. The words come easily and naturally: "It was great! Come on and next time ... "After that outlines his cherished sexual fantasy, gradually shifting the conversation to the mode of dialogue. "And if we're stuck in the elevator at night? Imagine: my hand as if by chance you find in the dark ... "asked her to join this mise en scene, and you can easily figure out what it terms the most pleasant to discuss intimate details.The method of "remote access"
One woman described how she managed to talk my husband. She asked him to talk about sex on the phone in the middle of the day. "At first he resisted, but after the first attempts to" phone sex "was given to him easily. Previously, he was embarrassed because I thought that looks at the same time once a fool. On the phone, this problem has disappeared - he did not see my eyes and facial expressions, and therefore felt much freer. Over time, he was very successful in retelling what we were before and where he wanted me to touch it. " Very soon, scientists talk naturally transported home.The method of "remember everything"
Try to just start remembering especially the highlights of your shared sexual history. "Do you remember when the last referendum, we retired to the voting booth, you're bent on the newsletter, but I ..." Suggest a girl to fill the missing details, and you do not have time to look around, all sorts of barriers will disappear by themselves. Barrier overcome shyness? It's time to begin to hone a style. Take care of poetic images until the Day of Saint Valentine. The main thing in pododeyalnyh conversations - it's natural. We have already mentioned that we write about the conversations that accompany just the sex itself. Not before, not after, and in those moments when two people get pleasure from physical contact. The fight finished phrases and literary revolutions! The words come straight from the language of the heart, from the fingertips - anywhere, just not from the brain. Igor, realizing the error of his first experience, he rushed to the other extreme. He said: "I lust your vagina, fragrant Earl Grey!" The scars on his face were much faster than the memory of what she said in response. Women want honesty, not the love lyric poets of the Decembrists.Speak directly
All women in whom we were interested in the preferred topic of conversation under the blanket, were unanimous: "I want the man did not hesitate and just said he wants to do." Translation: No need to think, what you should say. And if you really want a girl turned on her side or on top of the village and talk. Given our warnings about the form submission.Install the boundaries of what is permitted
Nothing bad will happen if you did not say what she expects from you. In the worst case, lost excitement, sex does not work and you will leave your friends. To tune in a partner, listen to what she uses expressions. What it casually into the language, the more you can afford. Some "dirty girls" give birth to obscenity. If you are not disgusted - communicate on health as you like. There is even a form of sexual deviation - "koprofemiya" - uncontrollable desire to use foul dirty in bed. Zoophilia worse.Gradually escalate
Erotic fantasy - a good thing, but still try to control myself. One of our respondents complained that the appeals be frank her husband said homosexual monologue. What scared to death girl, expect to see in the title role himself, and not someone else's uncle.Install the brake lights
As in any other form of gambling and new activities, the more you do it, the more sophisticated you become. Sexual conversations can fill these related erotic feelings like fear, shame or guilt. With all this you can play and go farther and farther, until it is turned on you both. Do not forget to work out some sign or signal, which means "stop." Do you know how to fight - slapping his hand on the mat means "pain." If the girl burst into tears and spat in his face, then maybe that means it's time to stop.Give your opponent to speak
Maybe you will face with the unexpected rapid response to a modest attempt to sound sexy game. Be ready for this, as well as some unexpected turns, which may seem to you too crude, vulgar and sentimental. If you're not too breaks off, try not to limit freedom of speech partner. While she does not offend your religious or national feelings, as well as if her words did not call for the overthrow of the state system. If a particular turnover hurts too much ear or wander out of the erotic mood, try to repeat it to myself fifty times - any term loses its meaning when repeated many times.Do not forget about the groans, sighs and interjections
Nonverbal scale can add an erotic glow better than dirty words. Groans and pohryukivaniya, especially made in his ear, give the impression of losing control and animal pleasures. In principle, in the bed of these sounds may be sufficient if they are adequately convey your condition. As we know from the texts of popular songs, all we are animals when it comes to wild sex. Losing the human form, we will demolish all boundaries and conventions, and does not guarantee a fabulous sex?Know how to shut up time
Sometimes, though, you just want to enjoy their own feelings without any sound. At this point, just need to take advantage of the most conditioned signal to stop. Mastery of talking during sex is akin to the skill of the narrator - one must know when to stop, so as not to spoil the experience.

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